I’d by no means want ailing upon anybody however there’s this girl I work with who’s completely unbearable. I need her to understand how she makes different individuals really feel however I do not wish to trigger her hurt. Is it wishful pondering?
Little bit of background: this girl is 40 years my senior with 30+ years extra expertise in our work discipline although the previous few years for me have been in administration. She has efficiently pushed away not less than four workers from her division within the final couple of years together with her angle. She makes her workmates look incompetent to our purchasers and she or he’s extraordinarily manipulative; there’s intent behind each transfer she makes.
She brags about her belongings and the way good she is however places everybody else down. She at all times says “I do not want this place. I am properly off. I do not want work, you want me.”
Her husband left her years in the past and her solely daughter is a 2 hour airplane trip away (grownup and left by alternative). That is nonetheless not sufficient for her to understand she’s a horrible particular person. I would not have an issue together with her if we had been in one other discipline however we work with kids and I do not assume she has their finest intentions at coronary heart.
What can I do to indicate her who she actually is and get her to alter her methods?